YOUR HOME

Women today, complain of not having their husbands' heart. You can't, when all you do is sit with your phone and the television all day neglecting the need to satisfy him. Men are like kids, they come to you when you have something to give. There is still an opportunity for you to build a happy ending. Some will take this as absurd but sending a love message to him at work or anywhere brightens his heart. Start the mission with a love message. One of the problems women have today is failing to listen before replying, and not listening and replying at all. As the head of the house, listen to him attentively when speaking so that he would know your attention is with him as well as sharing ideas and pondering on issues with him. Saying thank you is hard for some ladies; when you buy something they don't like, instead of thanking you before telling you if they like it or not, they will just go straight to, 'this thing is not even good at all, you should have informed me...' Learn to always say thank you with a smile, it makes him want to do more. There's no doubt, there is a food he likes the most but it's a pity nowadays, ladies don't know how to cook, they prefer visiting the eateries everyday. They have forgotten that the key to a man's heart is his stomach, cook his favorite food and tell him to do something, see if he won't. In this new age of satellite dishes televisions, ladies bury themselves in the bosoms of many shows, forgetting to hand over the remote to the man who has few minutes to spend with the television. Also, they forget to welcome him home as a result of being deeply buried in a show they can't cease watching. Let him feel at home when he returns from work. Don't spend the weekend going to parties carve out time to spend with him. Bring memories of your courtship into play, do not neglect your appearance. A man who married you cause of your figure would find a new model when he sees you are losing form and shape. Take care of yourself and do things he likes seeing you do. Spend time playing together, like dancing to a song, indoor games, in the bathroom, etc, because all these makes him forget all the stress he is facing. Don't be a hell to him. Quarrels can't be weaved, they will occur. When they do, know the right time to argue with him and don't take all unneccessary words serious. Don't let him be the only one saying sorry when a fight occur, learn to do so too and forgive him anytime he offends you. Flirting with him in the presence of friends and family isn't a bad thing, since he is your husband. Don't always be the 'I need this, I need that'. Have a little way through you will be supporting him and never fail to pay attention in his source of income. The best moment to discuss things is the midnight, wake him up, comfort him and tell him the going will get better. The king of all always pray for be it aloud or in private. Take a step now, before he reaches a corner. Don't let him depart from your hold because if he does, that may be the end of your marriage. There are some of these that won't work out well but there is a lot of it that will save your home from falling apart. The burden of a good home is on the wife, not the husband. Be a good mother and wife. Don't let him take his departure. Avoid divorce, broken home, single parenting, etc, build your home.

MISSING PRIDE

I was at a place recently where some ladies were discussing. One was like 'I pity the ladies that are still virgins'. I was made to realise that she was deflowered willingly at the age of eighteen. A lady wrote 'Virginity is not dignity, but lack of opportunity'. Does this mean that there are no more virgins? When did loss of virginity become a thing of pride? Why are we losing it? What is bad in being a virgin? I feel like writing more but I want you to contribute too. Ladies, why is this happening?

DONE DEAL

I don't know what's wrong with ladies nowadays, they no longer work towards controlling their sex urge. If they see this guy, they will want to have something with him. Some ladies go to the extent of paying guys to come and have sex with them. Though it is understood that sex is good, premartial sex isn't. Ask those who have done this before you and learn from them. You better change now before your future becomes a done deal who knows tomorrow might be late. Sexually transmitted infections are out there and I'm sure you ain't ready to be a mother. So, if you know you have a story to make, you will change your ways so that you can be great.

DON'T CHANGE

Back in those days, there was this girl in my class that the guys took to be too ugly for them to date or be in a relationship with. It was believed that she lacked both physical and inner beauty (our inner beauty comprise our behaviours). They hardly have things to do with her. Our final year was like the year she had always dreamt of as lady, she started getting this unusual attention. She has metamorphosed into the lady every guy wants to have 'a taste of' and every guy was like 'she must be my girlfriend'. Why waste your time trying to get the attention of someone who doesn't love you? It is a matter of time, they will come falling for you. It baffles me at times. You see girls do unexpected things for a guy to love them or remain in a relationship, like having sex with him, bleaching just because he said she is too dark, changing their lifestyle... Love is like logical statements in Mathematics, it is either true or false. There is nothing you can do to make him love you, if he doesn't. If he truly loves you, I bet you he won't want a bit of you to change or tell you to do what is wrong. Like someone once told me 'anyone who is trying to change you doesn't like you. If he doesn't like you this way, he is not that person', keep searching. If you are not beautiful today, who knows, you might be tomorrow's 'cinderella'. When you become that girl every guy wants to be with, don't let it get into your head because it might make you lose it. Don't feel too special. Don't be a victim, no one is ugly. Be yourself and play safe! Don't change who you are because of anybody.

WHAT HAPPENED TO?

At first, I thought saggy breast would at the end of breast-feeding be possessed by a woman but at times, I saw young ladies that do have such and I ask myself, why do people have this? Saggy breast is something that can be avoided as well as eliminated. You see ladies go about without dressing completely. It is an incomplete dressing that gives rise to saggy breast. Why will you dress without wearing a brassier? You are not expected to dress without it. You can wear it to bed, even at all times. This is why you see some mothers with saggy breast. Why? It's because they stopped using bra when they were breast-feeding their babies. Not only that, wearing an oversized bra will cause saggy breast while an undersized can lead to constriction and may end up leading to cancer. Wearing a moderate-sized bra won't cost you anything instead it will repair, package, make you. Also, massaging of the breast helps the distribution of blood which in turn increase the size of the breast. Your breast is one of the parts that stores fat and can reduce when one is on diet. Eating fatty foods can help increase the size but don't make it much. Lastly, hitting the breast on things or applying too much pressure to it can cause cancer, so avoid it! and apply it!

WHY DO YOU?

It amazes me when I see a lady accepting for a guy who has infatuation for her. The question I come to ask myself is why do she love him? Is it because of his body outline,workplace,how romantic he is,etc. Why?

YOU BETTER THINK

Miss 'I love that guy'!!!
Are you not satisfied at this junction,you flirt with all the people in trousers that you meet.
Are you not aware that all these will end a day.
Are you not afraid of being infected with a sexually tranmitted infections(STIs) like the deadly HIV/AIDS.
Are you not afraid that these guys might be harming you,ow you have lots of chants to combat such
Are you not aware of the fact that these guys will leave you when you are down with a disease.
Are you a student,ow you are and you are not aware that if you don't take heed you might fall into an endless pit. And there are two things involved,it is either you die or your journey to your destiny is terminated.
Are you an influential person or a white-collar worker and you are not told that this your act can lead you to your death which can adversely terminate your children's future and can turn your husband into a single parent.
So,i hope you are already thinking of how you will change because tomorrow might be late. Think and act wisely...

WHAT WILL YOU DO

You met this guy at a party and he asked you out. In no time,you have started dating. After some weeks of getting along,you discover he has two wives... Are you going to continue with the relationship or break up? What will you do?

WHO DO YOU THINK IS BEAUTIFUL?

Who do you think is beautiful - Is it a lady who uses make ups to bring out the beauty in her or a lady who appears with no make ups but yet the beauty in her is there for you and me to see. -My view I would say ladies with no make ups are more beautiful than those with it. The reason for this is that some of these ladies don't know how to apply these make ups You will see some ladies and you will be like is this a human because they will look more than horrible due to the lack of knowledge on the application of these make ups. -My advice Ladies,why not stay with no make ups for a day and hear what people say about your look. But if you don't like what they are saying about you then I will advice you to go and learn how to apply make ups and know the necessary things you ought to know and stop creating a scene in your environment.