DON'T CHANGE

Back in those days, there was this girl in my class that the guys took to be too ugly for them to date or be in a relationship with. It was believed that she lacked both physical and inner beauty (our inner beauty comprise our behaviours). They hardly have things to do with her. Our final year was like the year she had always dreamt of as lady, she started getting this unusual attention. She has metamorphosed into the lady every guy wants to have 'a taste of' and every guy was like 'she must be my girlfriend'. Why waste your time trying to get the attention of someone who doesn't love you? It is a matter of time, they will come falling for you. It baffles me at times. You see girls do unexpected things for a guy to love them or remain in a relationship, like having sex with him, bleaching just because he said she is too dark, changing their lifestyle... Love is like logical statements in Mathematics, it is either true or false. There is nothing you can do to make him love you, if he doesn't. If he truly loves you, I bet you he won't want a bit of you to change or tell you to do what is wrong. Like someone once told me 'anyone who is trying to change you doesn't like you. If he doesn't like you this way, he is not that person', keep searching. If you are not beautiful today, who knows, you might be tomorrow's 'cinderella'. When you become that girl every guy wants to be with, don't let it get into your head because it might make you lose it. Don't feel too special. Don't be a victim, no one is ugly. Be yourself and play safe! Don't change who you are because of anybody.