YOUR HOME

Women today, complain of not having their husbands' heart. You can't, when all you do is sit with your phone and the television all day neglecting the need to satisfy him. Men are like kids, they come to you when you have something to give. There is still an opportunity for you to build a happy ending. Some will take this as absurd but sending a love message to him at work or anywhere brightens his heart. Start the mission with a love message. One of the problems women have today is failing to listen before replying, and not listening and replying at all. As the head of the house, listen to him attentively when speaking so that he would know your attention is with him as well as sharing ideas and pondering on issues with him. Saying thank you is hard for some ladies; when you buy something they don't like, instead of thanking you before telling you if they like it or not, they will just go straight to, 'this thing is not even good at all, you should have informed me...' Learn to always say thank you with a smile, it makes him want to do more. There's no doubt, there is a food he likes the most but it's a pity nowadays, ladies don't know how to cook, they prefer visiting the eateries everyday. They have forgotten that the key to a man's heart is his stomach, cook his favorite food and tell him to do something, see if he won't. In this new age of satellite dishes televisions, ladies bury themselves in the bosoms of many shows, forgetting to hand over the remote to the man who has few minutes to spend with the television. Also, they forget to welcome him home as a result of being deeply buried in a show they can't cease watching. Let him feel at home when he returns from work. Don't spend the weekend going to parties carve out time to spend with him. Bring memories of your courtship into play, do not neglect your appearance. A man who married you cause of your figure would find a new model when he sees you are losing form and shape. Take care of yourself and do things he likes seeing you do. Spend time playing together, like dancing to a song, indoor games, in the bathroom, etc, because all these makes him forget all the stress he is facing. Don't be a hell to him. Quarrels can't be weaved, they will occur. When they do, know the right time to argue with him and don't take all unneccessary words serious. Don't let him be the only one saying sorry when a fight occur, learn to do so too and forgive him anytime he offends you. Flirting with him in the presence of friends and family isn't a bad thing, since he is your husband. Don't always be the 'I need this, I need that'. Have a little way through you will be supporting him and never fail to pay attention in his source of income. The best moment to discuss things is the midnight, wake him up, comfort him and tell him the going will get better. The king of all always pray for be it aloud or in private. Take a step now, before he reaches a corner. Don't let him depart from your hold because if he does, that may be the end of your marriage. There are some of these that won't work out well but there is a lot of it that will save your home from falling apart. The burden of a good home is on the wife, not the husband. Be a good mother and wife. Don't let him take his departure. Avoid divorce, broken home, single parenting, etc, build your home.